What Happens When You Fear Both Failure and Success?

Are you avoiding things because you fear failing at them or because you fear succeeding at them?

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I used to think that I didn’t try new things because of my anxiety. It is true that I’m very anxious doing anything outside my comfort zone, but that is true of many people and it does not tell the entire story…

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Writer. Single mother to transgender son. Still grieving the death of my partner. Lifelong fighter of depression and anxiety. M.A. in Human Behavior.

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Heather Ashman

Heather Ashman

Writer. Single mother to transgender son. Still grieving the death of my partner. Lifelong fighter of depression and anxiety. M.A. in Human Behavior.

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